Relationship conversation topics to chat with your partner in English

Relationship conversation topics to chat or talk with your partner and how to keep the conversation going.

When it comes to a relationship, communicating with your partner plays an important role. How to communicate and what to communicate is a super important factor in a relationship. This article will clear all your doubts and will give you plenty of good topics to increase your communication level with your partner.

Communication is a very important factor in a relationship because it decides the depth of your relationship and will decide how much you know your partner and how close you are to your partner. It also increases the flexibility of your relationship. At the start of the relationship it’s pretty awkward to start the conversation but, remember if there is no good start then it will be problematic in the long run of your relationship.

Important to note that whenever you are communicating with any person/people, remember to stay fluent and clear. It brings out a good impression.

The topics which I will be suggesting you can be bought by any of the partners be it a boy or a girl. Let me at first give you some advice:-

If you have just started dating someone -

·       1) Do not communicate with your partner about her family or any such topics at the start of your relationship.

·       2) Do not ask him/her personal questions

·       3) Do not suggest him/her over his/her family problem if not asked by him/her.

·       4) Do not ask him/her some awkward questions.

·      5) You can ask him/her about some trending topic

·       6) You can ask him/her about some movies or thoughts over some movie

·       7) You can ask about his/her favorite movie, song, actor, or actress.

·       8) You can ask him/her about his/her favorite place to visit

·       9) You can suggest him/her watch something or visit somewhere

·       10) You can also ask him/her about some information (relevant) you want to know but make sure you are not making fun of yourself by asking for irrelevant information which does not exist at all.

·      11) You can ask him/her about his/her favorite brands too.

·       12) When you have started dating, sometimes silence also speaks a lot therefore focus and enjoy that too.

·       13) Be with him/her during his/her low because that will help you get closer to them and will help in deep conversations further.

Yes, you start from here. Your relationship will initially start from such small topics which will get you closer to your partner. Remember to start from basic topics so you know the basic things about your partner. You cannot directly start talking about him or ask about his parents and all other too private data and if you do, the above basic things will be missed and you won’t have a basic idea about him/her. So always start bringing such topics at the initial stage of your relationship.

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Now as your relationship grows you will somewhat come closer to your partner, so thereafter you can bring up some major topics you want to know about him/her. Now major topics will include family, his/her childhood, etc. But remember you need to be cautious while bringing up these topics. You need to ask for permission. After all, it looks decent because it will be for the first time that you will be bringing up such a topic. Once you get to know that he/she is comfortable discussing such a topic with you, you can further ask more questions over such or such other topics.

Deep topics to chat or talk about with your partner:-

·       You can ask your partner about his/her family.

·       You can ask your partner about his/her past.

·       You can ask your partner about his/her childhood

·       You can ask your partner about his/her family members.

·       You can ask your partner about his/her close person.

·       You can ask your partner whom he/she is close to.

·       You can ask your partner about his/her embarrassing story if any.

·       You can ask your partner about him/her deeply.

·       You can ask for any other personal details you wish to know.

While asking such things to your partner you need to ensure whether he/she is comfortable talking about it. You cannot directly surprise him/her with such questions. You need to know the level of comfiness he/she is with you.

To be close to him/her to need to make your start of the relationship very strong which is why I mentioned those easy topics initially to start your relationship train. Now it is up to you how you wish to start your relationship.

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How to keep a conversation going with a girl/boy?

You need not constantly be in touch with your partner. But when you are, you need to ensure that there is no place for silence between you both. You need to keep talking or chatting. You will have to make sure that your partner or girl or boy you are chatting with does not get bored of the topic you are talking or chatting about. To keep the conversation going with the girl you need to keep in mind the following things:-

1) When is the right time to start the conversation.

2) Is your partner or girl or boy free to conversate with you.

3) Is he/she comfortable having a chat or talk with you at that particular time.

4) Offer information about yourself too while communicating.

5) Don’t get confused or zoned out about the topic you will be discussing.

6) Do homework about what topics interest your partner.

7) Do not joke when he/she is serious.

8) Show interest in his/her say too.

9) let he/her finish what he/she just started. Do not interrupt him/her while talking or chatting.

10) This is last but very important. Do not panic when there is silence from his/her end. For example, if he/she has seen your message but has not replied do not panic because he/she might be busy and might get back to you later. If the communication is face to face and he/she did not respond, take it as a hint that he/she is uncomfortable discussing it and bring up another topic without making him/her feel guilty about it.

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