Qualities which are essential.

Hey there.

Today’s blog is very special since I worked for it a lot. I had to research and interview too because I wanted it to be perfect. When we elaborate certain word or a topic we need to assure few things which is why I had to work hard over this topic.

We don’t always need to have an experience over a thing we elaborate on. Sometimes knowledge alone is enough or just a dream or wish too is enough. This topic itself can be a dream or wish of someone out there. Gender doesn’t matter because each human has his/her wish or dream to have such a partner in his/her life you see.

I always have been saying that just love alone is not enough in a relationship and many other factors make a relationship strong. A relationship is like a vehicle, just a gear won’t give you the pleasure of driving that vehicle or you can say a relationship is like a cricket just a batsman alone cannot play cricket if there is no bowler to throw a ball at him.

To be honest, a relationship is not a joke and is a serious bond that involves lots and lots of emotions it involves two hearts and we all know how delicate a heart is. So if you are in a relationship put in efforts to blossom it.

When we are in a relationship both side needs to put in effort in it. The nature of both sides is also very important. It takes a hell of a lot of effort to build a successful relationship and also consumes lots of time to make it work.

Today let us see what qualities should a perfect partner possess. (Just researched the material and am not here to disrespect or hurt anybody nor have an intention to pass any judgments)

1)  Understanding- The word understanding has a deep meaning. You need to understand the needs and situations of your beloved person. You need to understand his/her mood swings. You need to understand his/her behavioral change. You need to understand why your partner has chosen a certain decision. You need to understand your partner thoroughly.

2) Supportive- If you do not support your partner, you are a failure trust me. A supportive partner is every human’s need. We all need a supportive partner, don’t we? Support your partner in all his/her good deeds. If you show no support to your partner there is no meaning in your relationship. Show him/her that no matter what and how tough the situation is, you are with him/her. The feeling that you are supporting him/her is also more than enough because feeling is what is more important in every relationship out there.

3) Polite but sometimes should be stubborn- Be polite with your partner buddy. Whenever you think your partner has gone wrong make him/her understand that in a polite manner. Polite words reach faster to the heart. The more polite you are the faster is the impact and the probability is 99% that he/she will listen to you and act according to your desire. But, the point here is that you do not always have to be polite, sometimes you should be stubborn and say no to certain things. Whenever your partner commits some wrong, you need to shout but there,s also a way of shouting. Do not disrespect in any manner.

4) Positive vibes- A perfect partner is someone who brings positivity in and around your life. He/she is full of positive vibes. After seeing him/her you feel the positive energy around you. Positivity is the most needed thing in this world. Positivity changes your negative thoughts into positive ones.

5) Loving - This is important. Without a loving nature, nobody would like to stay with you. If you do not show it to your partner, your relationship will have no meaning. How can someone stay with you if you do not show it to him/her? Take him/her somewhere once a week. Talk with him/her a lot. Communication is very important in every relationship. Have a lovely conversation. This will improve the quality of your relationship trust me.

6) Caring - you need to have caring nature. You need to constantly make an effort to show that you care about your partner. Don’t ignore their needs. Sometimes what your partner is just your care. Care about your partner’s needs, mood, etc. Every relationship comes up with a disclaimer “handle with care” be it for a boy or a girl partner doesn’t matter.

7) Adjusting – Every relationship requires adjustments. When two persons from different backgrounds, cultures, behaviors, styles, nature, and choices come together, there is a need to adjust. They say opposite attracts but, adjustment is something we all need to do. you cannot force each other to change instead come up with something which you both will love to do.

8) Compromising – Now it’s always important that you compromise sometimes. Remember not always, sometimes. There will be many instances wherein you will feel that one has to go one step behind. But don’t make your partner always go one step behind. Sometimes you should also learn to step behind. If you make your partner step down always, it will reduce the quality of your relationship. Don’t make that happen at any cost.

Relationships are very delicate. One crack is enough to finish it off. In such cases, we need to constantly look for solutions to make it strong. As days pass by try to make your relationship stronger. Don’t let anything stop you from growing your relationship. Both try to indulge in, to make your relationship better. The above stated are only some of the qualities to enhance your relationship. There are many more. But what’s more important is constant efforts.

It’s very rare to find someone in our lives. So please keep that partner in your life.

So that’s it for today. Do let me know below if there are more such qualities and I will surely make one blog on them.

Thanks for reading!