Misunderstandings

Hey lovelies,

I am back with another blog post of the week. I really do not want to miss a single week without posting. I am trying my best to at least post a single blog a week. Here I am with yet another discussion blog post. Last week I had posted a blog based on the unfortunate, an imaginary situation based. This time it's not an imaginary blog but something we usually face in day today life. A simple misunderstanding which actually breaks down a relation.

A simple misunderstanding can actually break down a beautiful relation. I have experienced this lately and it's really unfortunate to see how a relation breaks just because both parties have assumed certain things and their ego issues have created a wall between them. They ignore each other. They assume as if the other person does not exist. 

In this scenario, a third-person who has no malicious intention and in good faith wants both them to be good with each other, plays an important role. Even in this situation which I am narrating and have observed, a third party played an important role and made their relationship work out again.

Now the very important question here is should a third party get involved between the two persons? Was the relationship so weak that they needed the third person to make their patch up? Or do you need 3rd person to patch up? Couldn't you just walk up to the other putting your ego down and ask what's wrong and try to sort out the differences? 

This is very wrong in my opinion. Every relation should be strong enough to tackle the hurdles. It should be so strong that you need no mediator to sort out the issues between you two. 

A relationship is a beautiful bond you create. It should be supreme and so strong that ego has no place in it. When ego comes in any relationship, it destroys every essential factor of the relationship. Every relationship problems should be tackled with the maturity. You need not make decisions over the relationship when angry. You need to sit and think where and who went wrong and make the other person realise it by not blaming him or her but making him or her realise it politely. 

You need to understand the way you have self-respect even the other person has it. Misunderstanding is very common cause in every type of relationships. Be it with your friend, girlfriend, father or mother. You need directly sort it out without any delay. The more you wait, the more situation gets worse.

I hope you loved the today's discussion topic. Do let know your views. 

See you next week.

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Lots of love!