A story of trust

What is trust? And whom to trust? 

When trust word comes into the picture, we being humans blindly trust many. Trusting is not at all an issue but, whom we trust should be a deserving candidate. 

Do we trust our parents? Yes, of course, no doubt, right? 

Out of 100 at least 95 should trust their parents, let’s keep 5 out. But, today I have a story for you all wherein a girl did not trust her mother and ruined her own life. Let’s begin now. 

There was my school classmate. Let’s keep her name as Madhuri since I do not wish to reveal her name. Madhuri was a great person. She was one of my close friends. We were in 10th when she fell in love with a person named Robert Xavier. He was a Christian guy and she was Hindu as the name suggests. 

Let me first introduce you to the environment we lived in. So I used to stay in Maharashtra at that time as in during my schooling period. I was always taught that stay away from boys, do not fall in love, just study, we do not want this and that. And I was and I am still very scared of my parents because I do not wish to angry or upset them because of me. So, this was my situation at that time and even Madhuri had the same restrictions. Now you people might say that even we all have gone through the same phase then let me tell you many girls used to break promises and all. In short Madhuri and I had no permission to fall in love. 

I was very firm and did not make any boyfriends at that time. Madhuri as I told fell in love with this person who was 10 years elder than her. We were 14 I think or 15 I do not remember. So Robert was 24. Now she did not tell me because I was very strict and used to stay away from these things. (yes I was very innocent) Moving on, things were good I think between them. Now let me tell you many girls cannot hide such news for too long from their close friends. Madhuri told me this and I was shocked. Because such things were new to me. I told her that this is not correct and she should stay away from the guy. She did not listen and continued. I told this to my mother and she was all pissed and upset with the selection of my friends. 

Soon, her relationship became a hot topic in my class. And my classmates isolated her. Now, I felt bad for her. I did not know what was the exact reason for treating her this bad. Soon my other friend told me that she was dating a guy named Fazel from our class. I was surprised because she never told me this. I confronted her and she said that was her timepass. I was shocked as usual because this was very new to me. Of course, you cannot expect a girl in a school to be well versed with this. Now it’s common but that time it was not. I ignored her for a few days. Later she apologized and I forgave her. I did not exactly support her but, did not even encourage her. Because you cannot control someone’s life right. 

After the 10th I shifted here and there was no contact left between Madhuri and me. Later on, I came on Facebook and she told me what happened with her later. We came in touch after 4 years I think. She told me that her mother got to know about Robert. She was locked in a room because she had started visiting a church. She stopped going to temples. There was nothing bad about visiting the church but, she was so in love that she started hating Hindu gods which her entire family hated. She used to read-only bibles like every day. This her mother couldn’t take anymore. Her mother then enquired about the guy and got to know that he was not a good person. He used to drink, smoke, and visit bars. Also, he used to roam with girls. Madhuri did not trust her mother. She left the house and shifted into a flat with Robert. One day she returned from her college very early and she was shocked when she entered her flat. She saw Robert with some other girl.

Now such stories are very common. But my motive to share this with you all is that trust your parents, they know better. They would never wish bad for you. If Madhuri had listened to her mother that day, she would not have had to go through this pain.  She later visited her mother apologized. And now she is with a better person. Married and happy. 

I hope you loved today’s story. Let me know through the comments section below. Guys I have reduced the frequency of the blogs and will be posting only one blog a week because I have other commitments. Hope you all will support and understand my position. See you in my next blog. 

Bubye! Lots of love!