How to build self-confidence?

Self-confidence is a very important thing and we require it where ever we go. No matter in which field you are getting trained, you need to have self-confidence. You need it because it makes your personality shine and highlights you everywhere. But also you need to set some limits too. Too much self-confidence is not good too. You also need to make sure that to what extent you can showcase your self-confidence in front of a certain person.

For example:- You cannot show too much confidence in front of your employer because his authority is higher than you.

Self-confidence should not be used in the wrong manner. It should be used only to build your personality and to make you shine in your field.

For example, while presenting before the client you need to be confident in your statements. Before making them believe, you need to believe your statements and that’s how you go about it.

You need to present the whole of your project with confidence. You need to answer your client with correct statements and leave a good mark of your personality there.

Self-confidence needs need more ingredients too. One of those is “attire”. Your attires talk a lot about you. Your attire highlights you and makes you shine therein. So proper attire at the proper place is very important. Don’t were a suit at the party and don’t were simple clothes during your important presentation.

The above things which I described are very important and basic needs to build up your confidence. There are many others too. Which I will talk about today in my article.

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Now below are some pointers which you need to make a note about.

1- Belief in yourself – If you do not believe in yourself do not expect others to do so. You need to be confident about yourself and to do that you need to believe in your capacity. Believe because you have achieved certain things.

2- Practice what you are good at – Start with the things you are good at. Practice it daily. It will make you try different methods to do that and hence will make you innovative resulting in building up your self-confidence.

3- Follow your passion – Try following your passion. Keep on doing this daily. Rather add it to your routine. You can practice it for 15 to 20 minutes. You need to do so because you need to have a go. You need to start from somewhere so this is the best thing to start of.

4- Talk to yourself – stand in front of the mirror and talk to yourself. Practice it daily. It will make you confident and will improve your grammar and language. This will also make you know what expression you give and is not good. You will know your body language and will know where you go wrong.

5- Make a goal – Set up some goals. To achieve self-confidence you need to know why you need it and what is your goal. Know why you need self-confidence and once you know it, practice things to earn that goal.

6- Practice your talk – If you have some project to prepare and present for, you should at least take 10 takes before your actual presentation. You need to understand that this will enhance the quality of your presentation. Talk in front of the mirror check your language and expression. Improve wherever you can and you are good going thereafter.

7- Watch videos – You can watch some videos on YouTube to help you build up your self-confidence. The visual representation will help you a lot. Seeing someone building up his/her confidence will encourage you to get going.

8- Psychological – It is all in your head. Your mind should be positive while doing all these things. If you keep on thinking that you cannot then trust me, you cannot. You need to believe in yourself that say this every day “I CAN DO IT AND I AM NOT SCARED TO EXPRESS MYSELF” this will help you believe me.

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9- Stay away from negativity – if someone is constantly spoiling your positive vibes, recognize it and stay away from such people. While building up your self-confidence you need to have positive people around you because this will improve the quality of your thinking process. Do not let other people spoil your beautiful vibes.

10- Dress-up to impress – Dress right on at the right occasion at right time. Dress up to impress means dress up in such a way that people will know that they are counting on the right person. They should know that you are confident about what you are wearing. Your attire speaks a lot about you. Your personality highlights due to your dressing sense. You should be a style on that particular occasion you are going to visit.

These are some tips to improve your personality. However, if you still feel that you are not feeling confident about yourself kindly visit some professional person or talk to someone whom you know will understand you and also, will help you out at your lows.

Trust me, confidence is all about what you think and the way you think. It is all in your head. If you think right, you will act right. If you constantly think that you cannot do certain things you won’t be able to do it because as I said the self-confidence will work only when you want to change yourself. There is nothing a human is incapable of. If you have an urge to do something and you want it to happen no matter what nobody can stop you.

Lastly, I will just say that before executing the above tips be clear about your intentions and practice the above-given tips.